Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine if you are a good lover or not. If you can’t kiss, you are most likely lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable for women.
I have a lot of girlfriends and let me tell you that every time they kiss a man for the first time, the first thing they do is tell everyone how it went. One of the first questions a woman is asked after a date (sometimes the first question) is, “So, did you kiss?” If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by “What’s good?”
You may have followed my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my advice on kissing, you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don’t know how to kiss yet, of course. Knowing how most men think, I’m assuming you think you already know how to kiss girls properly. However, from what I’ve heard from my friends, chances are you don’t know everything.
Everything you do when you kiss a girl, especially for the first time, will cause her to reevaluate whatever prejudice she may have had about you. You might give the first impression that you’re confident, sensual, and intelligent, but if you give him a bad kissing experience, he’ll immediately associate a new set of beliefs with you.
Women want to be with a man who can make them feel like they’re the sexiest woman in the world, and this can’t be achieved if you can’t kiss. He will also think that you don’t care because there are great kissing tips everywhere and it’s very easy to find effective kissing tips, if you look for them.
However, learning how to kiss girls goes much deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips to her. To surprise any woman with your lips, you must know when and how to execute those kissing tips. Mood and timing play a big factor and if it’s not executed carefully, it won’t matter if you’re a master kisser because she can’t fully enjoy it.
Men are very different from women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss given to him by a woman he is interested in, even if it is a bad kiss. I’ve slept with many girls who didn’t know how to kiss at all because men are animals. Also, most men, along with me, believe that they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.
Women, on the other hand, are much more demanding. If they are not impressed or repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never have a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he’s doing and believes they should never have to teach him how to kiss. After all, in a woman’s mind, a bad kisser is a man who is not sensual, and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.
Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any other kiss, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss isn’t just a physical action, it’s an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.
Building Anticipation
One of my favorite kissing tips that I’ve used over the years is to build anticipation. If you’re getting positive signals from a girl and you’re almost 100% sure she’d like you to kiss her, wait. The anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.
There are so many things a man has to do before kissing and this article will give you some invaluable kissing tips that will blow her away. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we understand very well what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
kissable
A man has to be kissable if he wants a woman to yearn for his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, smooth, silky and smooth. Do you know how many men I’ve seen on a date with dry, cracked, chapped lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don’t care how attractive you are, if your lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before dating a woman. The lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use highly enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don’t mind creating some dependency on things, use it all the time!
Prevent or mask bad breath
So you already have pretty lips, right? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there’s something else you should always ask yourself: “What does my breath smell like?” People with bad breath rarely know they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day, you should always carry mints with you when you’re with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not get rid of halitosis (bad breath) because your teeth are not to blame for bad breath.
Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to beat it is to use breath mints. Also, drink plenty of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from drying out, and a dry mouth smells much worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must always be followed because you could be doing everything right, but if your breath smells bad, sayonara. You failed. Women are very sensitive to odors and bad breath will make them turn away and run out the door faster than hell.
Make sure she’s ready to be kissed
Even if you have the prettiest teeth and the freshest smelling breath, you should be sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and the signals that women send, so I recommend that you familiarize yourself with them because nothing is as embarrassing as refusing a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is very easy to tell if they are kissable.
If you think a woman is sending kissable signals, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don’t rush into kissing, especially first kisses, even if you’re getting positive vibes. As I said before, building anticipation is very effective and choosing the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That’s something you’ll have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different, so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set it up and get you up and running, but ultimately it’s up to you to decide if the time is right.
move for the kiss
Once you think the time is right, move closer and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will scare her. He wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because he doesn’t expect it. These are the last seconds of anticipation, when their eyes are locked and nothing is said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss much more than if a kiss was taken away from her.
Your approach should be slow and smooth. Smile and take this opportunity while you are close to enjoy his scent. Don’t go straight to the lips, take a detour and hover over her face while gently brushing your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move towards her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. As you move, be sure to close your eyes in the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes as you get closer will leave her thinking you’re examining her blemishes, and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will scare her off. There have been a few times where I’ve caught a woman wide-eyed and let me tell you, there’s nothing weirder. I’m sure women find it even weirder.
be gentle
The first kiss should be soft. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. Finding her lips is the key, and for God’s sake, don’t be one of those guys who forces your tongue down a woman’s throat. A French kiss on your first try will make you seem overly anxious and drooling. Women remember the first kiss and making it as soft, sensual and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After finding her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. See if she’s enjoying the kiss, and if she doesn’t move within a couple of seconds (which is most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little more while remaining soft and sensual.
enjoy her lips and the kiss
Give the woman you’re kissing the impression that just kissing her is pleasurable enough. Don’t start caressing her inner thighs or her breasts during first kisses, or she’ll think you’re just trying to have sex. Take the time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush it. Gently rub your lips against hers as if you were enjoying every last contour. Don’t just close your lips, you want to feel every part of her lips. Move from the upper lip to the lower lip and vice versa. Do what you can to say, “I don’t want to miss an inch of your lips.”
relax and breathe
Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, although it is second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. It’s not like you’ll end up suffocating if you kiss too much, but it’s very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and make silly noises as their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch her while you kiss her
One of the most effective kissing tips you’ll ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is a kissing tip that you shouldn’t overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need much more. Using your hands to touch or cup her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outside of their arms or hold their hands. Run your hands through his hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not touch her.
Don’t just kiss her lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she’s enjoying it, move on to other parts of her face. The side of the mouth, the cheeks, the temple, the forehead and any other part of the face. Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel like you can’t get enough of her whole face. Don’t exaggerate though, you’re not a dog.
say sweet things
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during and after a kiss. Tell her that you’ve been in love with her for a while and that you’ve been wanting to kiss her. He comments on the softness of her lips and how nice she smells. Make her feel like she’s the most attractive woman you’ve ever kissed and I promise she’ll open up even more and feel comfortable moving on to French kissing or even sex. Learning how to French kiss deserves its own kissing advice article, so I won’t go into that here. Just know that comfort level is important to get the most out of a make-out session.
The kissing tips I outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to many men and none of them have been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help you and I hope you enjoy until the last minute while your lips touch hers.