Even though she may seem cold and insensitive, your ex girlfriend probably still has a special place in her heart for you. The problem is that there is something else that prevents him from having another chance with you. One of the best ways to convince her that you’re meant to be together is by showing her what she’s missing. In other words, you have to make him miss you like crazy.

Here are 5 ways to do it:

Avoid any behavior that puts you in a bad position. A classic example of this is the guy who just won’t stop sending messages asking to talk. This doesn’t put you in a very positive light as you’re not only acting desperate, but driving her crazy at the same time. Do this, and she certainly won’t start missing you anytime soon.

Adopt a mature attitude towards her and the breakup. Let her know that you’re okay with the breakup and that you still want to stay friends if she does. Treat her with respect and dignity and don’t keep trying to force her to come back to you.

While you should give her some space, you don’t want to completely disappear from her life. Stay in touch or she’ll get used to the idea that you’re not around. Having mutual friends is a good way to keep her in your life.

Get together from time to time as friends. This is a great way to work your magic without looking like you have ulterior motives. As friends, there’s nothing wrong with getting together for coffee or a quick lunch. You could even meet somewhere that has sentimental meaning for both of you (like where you first kissed her). But be very careful here, she can sense that you are trying to manipulate her. You want to be very discreet about this. With any luck, it will bring back a flood of memories.

be charming Even though they are no longer a couple, they can still charm her. Make her laugh, be witty, make her want to be with you. Again, the only way this will work is if she suspects that you’re not trying to manipulate her. Let her come to her own conclusions.