As for the things a man can do himself, masturbation already ranks high up in terms of how much fun it is. But for the guy who is always looking for new ways to masturbate, exploring games that focus on ejaculation control can be a profitable avenue to take. Frequent masturbation already has a positive impact on penile health; Focusing some of that pleasurable activity on ejaculatory control could have positive results for men who also hope to learn more control during sexual encounters.

Games

Masturbation alone can already help a man learn to control ejaculation by teaching him which areas of the penis respond in which way to different strokes and types of stimulation. Many men transfer this knowledge to good effect when in bed with another person.

The following games, however, can increase a man’s knowledge of his ejaculatory triggers to a greater extent. These games include:

beating the clock

Most men know how long their “typical” masturbation session lasts. They know they tend to last about “x” minutes if they stroke fast and constantly or “y” minutes if they take their time and stroke more languidly. To beat the clock, they want to aim for a fast and consistent session, but see how to lengthen the time involved. So if a typical session lasts 10 minutes, they set an alarm to go off in 15 minutes. When they hit the usual 10-minute mark, if they’re about to ejaculate, they stop for a few seconds, then stroke more: they stop and start and don’t allow ejaculation until they hit 15 minutes. Once this has been accomplished a few times, they move to 20 minutes, and so on.

extreme edging

The process mentioned above (stroking until you almost ejaculate, then stopping for a few seconds and stroking again) is commonly called edging. Another edge game to try is extreme edge: spending time masturbating for an extended period of time, say an hour, and not allowing yourself to ejaculate at all during that period. At the end of the hour, the man still hasn’t ejaculated. He stops masturbating for a period of time, maybe a couple of hours, then comes back and masturbates again for another hour. This goes on for several hours, so that when he finally ejaculates, the orgasm is quite intense.

change of position

Most men masturbate sitting or lying on their backs, which accustoms them to experiencing caresses in a particular way. A fun game that helps them learn to explore ejaculation control is to mix up positions during a masturbation session. They can start sitting down, then lie on their stomach on a bed and thrust with their fists (mimicking the missionary position), then stand up and rub their boner against a chair, then kneel down and slam their penis against the bed, etc.

keep the rythm

Masturbating to music can be a lot of fun, especially if the playlist includes short songs with very different rhythms. The goal is to keep the stroke consistent with the rhythm of the song being played, perhaps moving to double time when you’re ready to let out your ejaculation.

Whether working on improving ejaculation control or just enjoying some alone time, masturbation can be a great way to spend the night. But overdoing it can lead to pain and soreness, so using a superior penile health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) on a regular basis is essential. Even a well-lubricated penis can show signs of wear, diminishing the object’s visual appeal. A cream is needed that will keep the skin soft and supple, so a man should select a cream with dermatological benefits. Shea butter and vitamin E can play an important role in rehydrating the skin, so the cream should include those elements. It should also include alpha lipoic acid, an antioxidant that fights free radicals and the premature aging of the penile skin that these can cause.