You are crazy about your boy, but there is a big problem in your relationship. He no longer feels a spark. That’s not to say that he doesn’t love you, but something has certainly changed for him. The days when he couldn’t get enough of you are gone, replaced by a quiet, almost boring sense of comfort. He is a man after all and we all know that most men thrive on excitement and the unexpected. If your boy has told you that the spark is gone, you can change it. You have the ability to transform your relationship so that he feels the same about you now as he did when he met you.

When he tells you that he doesn’t feel a spark anymore, the last thing you should do is try to convince him otherwise. If you start pleading your case and try to explain to him why he should be as crazy about you now as he was when you first got together, he’ll see it as pathetic and hopeless. You will seem to have no self-esteem and men are not attracted to women like that. You have to handle this like the mature and emotionally strong woman that you are. That means you’re going to show the man an amazing catch that you really are.

You have to do something he doesn’t expect you to do if you want him to be captivated by you again. That means you’re going to muster up all the self-confidence you have and you’re going to walk away from him for a bit. You have to do this without all the fanfare of making a big announcement about how things are going to change now that you know he’s not as into you as he used to be. All you’re going to do is step back and let his mind begin to wonder what’s going on with you. You’ll still be as sweet and kind as ever, but you won’t be as available or approachable anymore.

Once a woman shows a man that she won’t always be there for him, he will sit up and pay more attention to her. He will learn to appreciate her and all she brings to her life. Suddenly, he’s incredibly interesting again because he’s out of her league. Keeping him on his toes is the way to make him feel a spark again, so do it by creating some distance in a very subtle way. The man will not be able to contain himself when he starts chasing you again.