Many men are too intimidated and anxious about sexy women to be successful in attracting women. I’ve even seen guys turn the heads of women who walk into a room who have this problem. Let me help some of you who may have this “between the ears” disability.

I have a good friend of mine who teaches people how to become millionaires by investing in real estate. He has bought and sold over 1,500 homes in his real estate career. The guy is a real doer, not a talker (he’s pretty good at attracting women, too)…and one of the most successful guys I know. I asked him what he considered to be the most important key to being a successful real estate investor. He looked me square in the eye and said this: “Time and circumstances change everything.” How does this apply to attractive, desirable, and sexy women?

You see, in real estate investing you have to deal with a “motivated seller” so you can get the house at the right price and make a nice profit when you “cash in.” You have to deal with those who need to sell, do not want to sell. What my friend told me was this: some of the best deals he’s ever made have come from dealing with people who told him no month after month… and then finally said yes (just like sexy women). What happened? Time and circumstances changed. They went from wanting to sell to needing to sell, and when they needed to sell he was still there. If he had been like most real estate investors and backed out of the deal as soon as he heard “no,” he would never have been as successful as he is today. The same applies to attracting women.

This is the truth about how people think, including sexy women: no decision, no matter how firm in the moment, is final. Ever. Decisions are always made and remade based on time and circumstances. An unmotivated salesperson today may be highly motivated tomorrow.

The same applies when it comes to attracting women. I hear guy after guy say, “She turned me down, I’m out of luck with hot women like her.” Or, “She left me for another guy. She’s gone forever.” This is all nonsense… just send all those women to the King and I will eventually allow them to spend time with me, no matter what they say at first.

Because? Because time and circumstances change everything, whether you’re selling real estate or meeting sexy and intimidating women. A few years ago, I had a truly amazing once-in-a-lifetime experience with a woman, Christine R. (she is one of my female testimonials at http://www.womenapproachyou.com/enter.htm) from Seattle. She saw an article about me, she contacted me, and we ended up meeting in Reno, sharing a truly indescribable experience. It felt like we lived a lifetime together in three days, an amazing example of what can happen when you master the art of attracting women.

However, due to distance and other factors, we both knew that a long-term committed relationship was out of the question, although we continued to meet as “adventure partners.” But she knew that she would eventually meet a guy for a long-term relationship because family was so important to her. And she did. And it was painful for me. HOWEVER… I didn’t get mad or put her in the “ex” or “friend” category (as many men do when they get “dumped” by sexy women). No, instead I left our relationship open to endless possibilities, though at the time she assured me that she had met “the one” and that she and I would never be intimate again. (I, being the King, said that she was not “the one”, just the “next”).

But time and circumstances change everything, especially when it comes to attracting women. And I saw her again in an intimate way. And she is in my life today, in a totally different way than she expected, in a way where we can both be truly happy for each other, regardless of whether the other is in a relationship or not. That would never have happened if we had become “just friends” or “exes”. And it rarely happens with men who date sexy women.

What can you learn from this? No matter what a woman tells you at the time, all decisions are subject to change. Three times in my life, women I cared deeply for have told me that our time together was over. But it was not like that. If I had reacted like a typical guy and considered these sexy women as “evil bitches” out to get me, our “future tense” would never have happened. But I just gave them my genuine understanding, told them how much our time together meant, and let them know that I would be in their lives in whatever capacity they needed, without judgment, without ulterior motives, never saying, “I told you so.” .” And all three of them came back to me, and our relationships to this day are stronger than ever. Why? Because I understand this when it comes to attracting women: time and circumstances change everything.